HOUSE OVERSIGHT 023316 he do the same thing that he had planned for the day- he wanted to check that he was doing things that he really wanted to. after three days of getting back an answer of no, he would change what he was going to do. . he also did not believe in LONG term plans. I dont think either one of us will figure out what we want to do long term so my thinking is that we should try to have fun everyday, and welcome serendipity. I think another trust and estate lawyer should be brought in to deal with the issues of how not to allow your family to get screwed by your partners on death. Alan, for years told me that paul weiss had drawn the docs so no issue but when recently pushed by my new fire drill he asked akin to draft.?! PLease ask brad about why he keeps talking about flow. I dont know what he means, its so silly. . this is only about money control and protection. I am leaving monday night now. free to speak in the afternoon Date: Thu, Apr 28, 2016 at 1:55 PM Subject: To: Melanie Spinella Lets start. I am aware that you are currently angry at the world. . me, karp wechsler. even yourself, all willing absorbers of the current high heat. (though you ,calling me ,Debra, did take away some of the sting ) I am sorry to see you this way. emblematic; I was asked to opine on whether to hire castrucci. an hour after I gave a preliminary yes. . I called you then texted you that i had thought more about it and changed my mind. The next day brad called and asked for my vote. I told him ,in no uncertain terms it is a no , I categorically vote no. I called you . you came to see me. I said it was a bad idea. you said you were going to do it anyway , I said and followed up in writing IT IS A MISTAKE . and added Please don't come back to me with anything suggesting otherwise , you and I should be clear I think it is wrong . A very strong NO. you of course can hire whomever you like. early on I told you I thought Tom remarkably careless . Eillee