http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/chrismaftercare.htm -- [back] 3. FormerWildChild's comment on my post: http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2010/10/18/there-it-is/ - comment-332491 -- [back] 4. Paper on people who experience orgasm while assaulted: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ pubmed/15261004 -- [back] 5. First-person account of orgasm during a rape: http://www_net- burst.net/hope/rape_orgasm.htm -- [back] 6. The cycle of abuse: http://(www.uic.edu/depts/owa/cycle_of_violence.html -- [back] 7. Thomas's post on S&M mistakes: http://vesmeansvesblog.wordpress.com/2012/04/30/theres-a-war-on-part-5-wallowing-in- the-sl-op/ -- [back] ok oe Communication: Feminist S&M Lessons From the Seduction Community 1. PUALingo lists over 715 pickup artist terms: http://www.pualingo.com/pua- terminology-list/ -- [back] 2. A PUA internal critique by a dude named Chris. I cross-posted it to my blog, and it's also available as an appendix in my book Confessions of a Pickup Artist Chaser: http://clarissethorn.com/blog/2011/04/18/guest-post-detrimental-attitudes-of-the-pickup- artist-community/ -- [back] 3. "Neg" definition: http://(www.sosuave.com/articles/neghits.htm -- [back] 4. Neil Strauss on negs: http://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/what-separates-a-winner-from-a- loser-is-2 -- [back] 5. Tyler Durden on negs: http://www.bristollair.com/2011/pua-seduction- methods/examining-different-pua-methods-pt-2/ -- [back] 6. This guy is a real asshole, and I dedicate most of a chapter in my book to explaining how wrong he is about everything. Roissy on negs: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/09/26/the-subtle-art-of-the-insidious-neg/ -- [back] 7. "If it wasn't for the pussy, there would be a bounty on [women]": http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/08/07/what-are-you-thinking-about/ - comment- 267855 -- [back] 8. Mark Manson on miserable PUA dudes: http://postmasculine.com/pickup-artist -- [back] 9. My interview with Neil Strauss: http://timeoutchicago.com/sex-dating/12914409/neil- strauss