ok S&M: BDSM "versus" Sex 1. Definition of "prostitution" shifts and NYC dominatrixes are arrested: http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/ElizabethsBlog/ncsf-statement-on-pro-dom-work-and- prostitution-statutes -- [back] 2. Marty Klein's "Is There Such A Thing As Kinky Sex?": http://www.sexualintelligence.org/newsletters/issue 128 html - three -- [back] 3. maymay on "kinky" not being limited to BDSM: http://maybemaimed.com/2010/10/05/honor-thy-language-kinky-is-an-adjective-not-an- activity/ -- [back] 4, Quasi-conservative organization Taken In Hand: http://www.takeninhand.com/ -- [back] 5. Comment from saurus: http://(www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/10/09/bdsm- versus-sex-part-1-divide-and-conquer/ - comment-397105 -- [back] 6. Feministe post on the "violent sex" article: http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/07/12/violent-sex-writer-compromises- safety-of-rape-survivor/ -- [back] 7. Comment from Jadey: http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/06/27/the-best- most-disturbing-thing-you-will-read-today/ - comment-373440 -- [back] 8. Mac McClelland's "Violent Sex" article: http://www.good.is/post/how-violent-sex- helped-ease-my-ptsd/ -- [back] 9. My old post "Casual Sex? Casual Kink?": http://clarissethorn.com/blog/2008/12/26/casual-sex-casual-kink/ -- [back] ok oe S&M: BDSM Roles, "Topping From The Bottom," and "Service Top" 1. Thomas MacAulay Millar on "Domism": http://vesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/2011/05/02/domism-role-essentialism-and- sexism-intersectionality-in-the-bdsm-scene/ -- [back] ok oe S&M: "Inherent Female Submission": The Wrong Question 1. The Topologies blog features three dominant female contributors: http://topologies.wordpress.com/2009/1 1/07/shifting-the-discourse-on-female- dominance/ -- [back] 2. Research on proportion of submissive BDSM women: http://kinkresearch. blogspot.com/2009/10/sex-role-ratio.html -- [back] 3. The female dominant blogger Bitchy Jones is pissed: HOUSE_OVERSIGHT_018690