ok Education: Liberal, Sex-Positive Sex Education: What's Missing 1. The Unitarian Universalist Our Whole Lives curriculum: http://www.uua.org/re/owl/ -- [back] 2. New Yorker review of the new Joy of Sex: http://www.newyorker.com/arts/critics/books/2009/01/05/09010Scrbo_books_ levy -- [back] 3. Synopsis of conservative book Modern Sex: http:/(www.manhattan- institute.org/modern/ -- [back] 4. Cuddle parties: http://current.com/shows/max-and-jason-still-up/89557966_first-time- cuddle-party.htm -- [back] 5. Scarleteen’s sexual inventory checklist: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/yes_no_ maybe so_a_sexual inventory _stocklis t -- [back] 6. Yes Means Yes blog on how affirmative communication combats rape: http://yesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/2009/01/16/the-words-that-come-after-i-want/ -- [back] ok Communication: Sex Communication Tactic Derived From S&M: Checklists 1. Example of a BDSM checklist: http://www.thebrc.net/check_list/default.htm -- [back] 2. Scarleteen's sex checklist: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/yes_no_maybe so_a_sexual inventory _stocklis t -- [back] ok oe Communication: Sex Communication Tactic Derived From S&M: Journal-Keeping 1. Submissive journaling prompts: http://odsm- sexperts. blogspot.com/2010/07/submissive-journaling-prompts.html -- [back] ok oe Communication: Sex Communication Case Studies 1. The previous post about a really problematic relationship: http://clarissethorn.com/blog/2011/03/01/storytime-how-my-life-wasnt-always-happy- fun-boundaries-are-perfect-land/ -- [back] ok Feminism: Towards My Personal Sex-Positive Feminist 101 1. An excellent definition and discussion of the word "cisgendered," by trans activist HOUSE_OVERSIGHT_018687