To: N E M From: Jeffrey ps en*: Sent Sat 12/5/2009 11:34:48 PM Subject: Re: yes, I read them and its all about what i do , it took a year of arguing before you gave in, you mean i didnt give in as quickly. and you take that to be a bad thing, it is your belief that I should succumb to petty ,behavior based on nothing more than childish jealousies. while all the time ignoring the fact that you do not do much but complain. On Sat, Dec 5, 2009 at 5:11 PM, N E M wrote: Sorry but you didn't do any of those things the way you did this one„it took a year of arguing to explain to you every one of those issues and it is still a compromise, jenna after 2 years still lives at 301, still comes to florida, you hired dana after I wanted her to leave, moved her to 301 and she still visits as well, you took hundreds of naps with sarah after we already talked about it and watched movies in the office every night hugging and being affectionate to these people...all of that knowing it was painful for me and i needed something from you that you didn't find justifiable or important enough. I know you were not trying to hurt me and I had to deal with the fact you are just going to do what you want. I obviously can't force you to do anything. With this email you actually took my needs into consideration without fighting me (well, until now) , I appreciated it, I realized how much nicer it is and I should do that for you too. ( this would be the point where i am dealing with my own actions and i am not content with them ) I don't see why we are arguing now...are you actually reading my emails? From: Jeffre E stein < eevacation o m tl m> To: nadia Sent: Sat, December 5, 2009 4:18:08 PM Subject: All needed to see was you actually taking a step to do what was important to me .. no naps no movie watching, no dana , no jenn„ these are all the same , just this one thing. , jeffrey doing something he detests just to demonstrate to nadia that he is willing to give u