From: Jeffrey Epstein <[email protected]> To: Subject: sounds too familiar, this really upset me Date: Thu, 29 Oct 2009 12:04:05 +0000 Women are led to have a sense of entitlement because they falsely believe they are owed something based on the social roles that they have taken for themselves. Because someone has accepted the role of being someone's girlfriend or wife, they feel entitled to dictate behavior , get things from the other person or, if not, sulk. Because someone has accepted the role of being a consumer, they feel entitled to be treated as they desire, though only usually performing any asked task at the level of bare minimum. ie. the passing grade. In short, they want to play the game without having to " earn " what they want, so they will make your life difficult if you don't give in their selfish beliefs. Learning to say" no", is the first step, not "maybe" , this will be taken as an eventual "yes". The sense of entitlement is accompanied by the confirmation of no consequences to selfish, self centered behavior, not sharing, withdrawing affection, complaining are the signs of non- acceptance of necessary required achievements. The feeling of entitlement is predicated on the acceptance of social roles. of "false selves." Two people are needed for the whining to be successful however, responsibility. Why does he give in? He gives in because the" girlfriend " strikes in him a "sensitive chord." We can say that she makes a chord vibrate which he do not wish to feel vibrating. So he does what he needs to do in order to cease the vibration. This sensitive chord is generally an unpleasant emotion, or an unwanted consequence. the one who who gives in , bears He gives in to prevent from living through something that he judges worse than the complaining itself. Examples: * It's easier for me to give in to my girlfriends nagging than bear through her tantrum, so I give her what she wants. * It's less intolerable for me to claim tha