From: To: "jeffrey E." <[email protected]> Subject: More Date: Mon, 18 Aug 2014 17:31:33 +0000 Thx... Need a plan to feel secure (day to day) enough to be productive and creative. So how does this sound - I. Talk to Bill this week (should I ask about the and mention Bill Heiman or leave that you?) 2. Put on hold 3. Think through a strategy to work w and present it to him in late Sept in NYC and decide soon after 4. By mid October will have decided on next private sector opportunity Other considerations... - my secondment is safe and enjoyable... Can I build an story full time vs while still at (Sept 2015 expires) - what to do about medical practice and staying current (now doing on weekends and holidays) as it is too valuable to me. happy to allow me find a way to stay current and he thinks it is cool - personal stuff with as I need my own money to have a decent lifestyle and he is not likely to make more. Don't want to take his money or make him feel threatened that anyone is trying. I did help him along every step of the way and we have most properties in joint names. That's hard. So he either gives me something or I make something but I can't really go anywhere without some financial security. I Always want a positive and amicable relationship with him as you know how bitter and vindictive he can be. He's a very smart and thoughtful person. I honestly think he is and has been in love with (that plastic surgery person from M) since they dated like 20 years ago and I think he missed her a ton. I don't know how to find out if they are having an "affair" but I think it has been ongoing 20 years. They are in constant communication. She is worried about losing money from her loser second husband and not likely to divorce. I've asked him about her once or twice over our 15 years together and he's obstructive and dismissive which makes it sound like a denial/guilty but hard to tell. He has pretty high integrity in other ways but ot