From: "G. Max" <IIMIMIa> To: Ted Wain Subject: Re: Harmonic Concurrence Date: Mon, 05 Apr 2004 14:41:13 +0000 <html> Thank you - things are getting uglier with every passing moment right now. This fight is shaping up nicely to a cat 10. If you were a storm watcher I would tell you to get into position as you may never see such a pretty one again - <br> Later<br> <br> G<br> At 01:12 PM 4/5/2004 -0500, you vvrote:<br> <blockquote type=cite class=cite cite>Ghislaine, Sony to hear things got ugly. I know that's not how you want<br> things to play out. <br> <br> However, we can't let them make us feel guilty. We can feel guilty for<br> nasty things we say that are hurtful when they push us for explanations, but<br> not for our actions lately. I believe we both have plenty of reasons for<br> where we are, and if we are guilty of anything it was tolerating another<br> situation longer than we should have. That makes our current actions more<br> shocking to them, as we probably tolerated way more than most people would<br> have over the last several years. <br> <br> I know our situations are completely different, but I believe there is a<br> similarity there too. <br> <br> For once we are in control of our own happiness, and for years we never<br> thought of our happiness first. We thought of others first, and we were<br> just generally happy people going through life. We got our happiness from<br> making others happy, and felt very fortunate for all we had. We built a<br> lot, did a lot, got a lot, and lived a lot, so we never stopped to look at<br> what we were missing.. <br> <br> Then something changed. Completely separately we started asking questions<br> of ourselves, and looking at things differently. We had what we wanted on<br> some levels, but we were missing something massive. Before we even met, we<br> knew there was more out