From: Ted Waitt To: Ii IMIE= HI alMia> Subject: Harmonic Concurrence Date: Mon, 05 Apr 2004 18:12:39 +0000 Ghislaine, Sorry to hear things got ugly. I know that's not how you want things to play out. However, we can't let them make us feel guilty. We can feel guilty for nasty things we say that are hurtful when they push us for explanations, but not for our actions lately. I believe we both have plenty of reasons for where we are, and if we are guilty of anything it was tolerating another situation longer than we should have. That makes our current actions more shocking to them, as we probably tolerated way more than most people would have over the last several years. I know our situations are completely different, but I believe there is a similarity there too. For once we are in control of our own happiness, and for years we never thought of our happiness first. We thought of others first, and we were just generally happy people going through life. We got our happiness from making others happy, and felt very fortunate for all we had. We built a lot, did a lot, got a lot, and lived a lot, so we never stopped to look at what we were missing.. Then something changed. Completely separately we started asking questions of ourselves, and looking at things differently. We had what we wanted on some levels, but we were missing something massive. Before we even met, we knew there was more out there and made a decision to find it. We were no longer happy, and couldn't fake it any longer. Then we meet, and bang. Both of us believe we have found something that can make us truly happy. On all levels. We know how happy it makes us when ever we are together, and we believe that can last for a long long time. Selfish, maybe. A redirection of our selflessness, possibly. Perfect harmony, could be. We finally met someone who seems to give as much as they get, and everything seems to be in perfect balance for once. Magic happened when we met, and it continue